Taking spanking to the next level

I have often asked, though not frequently, for Cindy to spank me to help reduce my stress. This might be every month or bimonthly! Howver, this includes the fact that if I go too long without being spanked, then this sadly increases my stress levels. I  am usually spanked a couple of times a month, but recently it has been much more frequent, so absolutely no need to ask. 

Do you have this same dilemna of needing to ask to be spanked? 

Cindy always agrees, and the spanking happens ASAP, if not immediately.

We do not do maintenance spankings.

What has changed, thus my title of taking spanking to a new level.

Well, we are about to go on a month's vacation, and Cindy always stresses before going.

Aside: I have left two posts, scheduled to appear, so if interested you will need to look for them,a s they do not necessarily appear.

Cindy was stressed two nights ago, so to alleviate her stress, she spanked me!!!!

A real long session, over the knee, with both the leather tawse,

and then the Ms. Hurley wooden paddle. 

A very strong, effective spanking. 

She agreed, after I thanked her for my spanking (a ritual showing I accept being spanked), that her stress is less.

However, yesterday, I had an on the spot long spanking with a wooden spoon for not driving carefully and signaling when I turn. This has never happened before. 

Two days, two spanknigs initiated by Cindy.

Today, another on the spot spanking with the wooden spoon, longer than yesterday's, for raising my voice when frustrated. My fault to being frustrated while talking about finances with Cindy, but the solution was readily available.

Thus, three spankings in less than 48 hours, and the day is not finsihed.

Yes, we have entered a new era.

Yes, Cindy is smiling more than normal!

Has your partner increased your spankings on their own?

bottoms up

Red

What are the three most used spanking positions when you are spanked?

Variety is the spice of life, but after many years of being spanked, I think most people use only a couple of positions for the spankee to be in. 

The reason being, in my mind, is that we evovle into using the easiest method for the spanker to give the most effective spanking.

Normally, when told  I am going to be spanked, I am either told by go upstairs and prepare, or most of the time "come upstairs". The " come upstairs" might be for a spanking I was NOT expecting, but I usually am made aware of a spanking about to happen today. 

method 1: pillows in the bed to raise my bare bottom, and Cindy standing spanking me. 

If Cindy is using the tawse, or the bath brush, it is used with effective force. 

My most recent with a bath brush only.

Method 2. If over the knee is the method for today, it is equally effective.

Method 3 is on the spot, and that usually is a wooden spoon in the kitchen: with the words, 

BARE YOUR BOTTOM AND BEND OVER

however, if she pulls a chair out and sits down, then a long spanking is about to be given

So, would you like to share the usual positions you are spanked in (As I think almost everyone who comments is the spankee)  or what favorite positions do you like to be in or on to spank someone. 

Thought for the day:

easy to remember

smile

 

bottoms up

Red

How did spanking become a part of your marriage (or relationship)!

 Well, a little rambling, like Dan calls riffing, about us.

I have had a fantasy kink about spanking, since as long as I can remember. (from sometime in my teenage years). My initial thoughts were of being the spanker, but an equal fascination of being spanked when I would see that situation in a magazine in photos or simply being described in words. Spanking thoughts and putting yourself into the spanknig always created an erection for me, with the normal results for a young male.

I hid spanking from my future wife, as I loved her and did not want her to think of me as a pervert and thus an undesirable life partner. We married in our early mid 20's. We have children, and never spanked our kids. I eventually gave in to my fetish with buying spanking magazines and hiding them away, like I had done in my teenage years, and after more than ten years told her a bit more about my kink. She wanted nothing to do with it, but did not prohibit my buying magazines as long as I hid them.

Fast forward another 20 years and with two of the three children grown up and left the home, I broached trying spanking when the youngest was out. It was not accepted as an idea to pursue.

By the time the youngest was away to university, I had discovered the Disciplinary wives club, and purchased many of their publications, one of which was for the woman whose husband wants her to spank him, and how to mentally approach spanking her man. Another was for the man as to how to discuss that you would be the person being spanked, and accepting being spanked, and promoting your wife that she will have a positive experience.

Cindy, knowing this was a fetish that would never go away, read the material on the website, and what I had purchased! She agreed to parts of what she read, but felt parts were too severe to ever be reasonable.  I liked the nonchalance of spanking your husband when needs it, as personified in this photo from the website 

I always loved the wife smiling, and the idea that a wife smiles while spanking you, and solving a problem.

I started a blog called spankedhubby, after discovering the dwc website, but after many years my blog simply disappeared, without any warning or explanation. 

I have purchased many implements over the years, many from the DWC site when it existed. We threw away ones that were too severe.  We visited Aunt Kay once, and slowly spanking has become more of our life.

Cindy and I are now quite happy with spanking, but it still happens in stages, as previously described on this blog

Cindy is now quite happy when spanking me, for whatever reason she feels needs to be changed or for something I did that upset her.

We are in our late 70's (past what one would call our middle 70's) and have a very exciting sex life after more than 50 years being married. 

I still get erections (sometimes) by being told I will be spanked, and the erotic thought fills the moment,, but age and knowing it will be a real spanking, not a play spanking, does temper my reaction sometimes.

Cindy is very receptive to love making the day after spanking me. but rarely the day of.  A spanking is given for a reason, and is not rewarded with sex afterwards. Anticipation does exist however, for both of us, and the passion is even greater when making love.

Many things can get in the way of a couple having sex as they age, and to me I think spanking helps keep the love and sexual desire AWAKE! 

Your history and your thoughts about spanking in relation to your love making. (you can answer both or either) 

Always leave them smiling

bottoms up

Red

Are you spanked when on a vacation? (updated)

 Here is an interesting thought for you to consider. 

Identical to being in a cabin on a cruise ship, where the walls are paper thin, and you have no idea who is walking by in the hallway.

1. Are you spanked while on vacation?

2. If yes, then the obvious follow-up is what implements do you bring with you when traveling?

3. What places have you been spanked in? (hotels, cruise cabins, airbnb, in the car at the side of the road, or park and enter the forest to be spanked, or even at a friend's house) Other places are also welcome.

fantasy

4. Lastly, do you think anyone has heard?

1. Personally, I am spanked on almost every vacation, if not all vacations. We tend to travel for longer times, so the idea of not being spanked while away seems highly unlikely. Some spankings are at my request, some are a surprise that I am about to be spanked.

2. Normally, we take the short tawse and the wooden bath brush, but have at times taken the cane also. I always wear a belt so that is also available. Cindy normally uses botht he tawse and bath brush for any spanking.

3. The paper thin walls of a cruise ship cabin, or inexpensive hotels, no longer in any way detour a spanking occuring. The most we do is turn the music on, and then Cindy spanks as long as she desires.

4. I am certain we have been heard, as on the occasional cruise the person leaving the cabin next door at the same time we are , seems to stare for a moment, grasping the situation. I smile and keep walking. For certain some cabin stewards must have heard, because you never know when they are in the hallways. We do LOCK the door and put up the do not disturb sign.

However, the sound of a solid spanking with a bath brush is very loud!

Spanked in the daytime does not mean that is all for the day

Being spanked on vacation and possibly being heard adds to the effectiveness of feeling submissive, and agreeable for whatever Cindy would like to do!

bottoms up and smile

Red