Sunday, May 10, 2026

Cindy is spanking often (recap for the last three days)

Been a long time since I used this blog, so maybe it is time to revive it.  

We are traveling frequently, and are healthy and enjoying life. Being in our late 70's (wow is that a frightening thought), we keep traveling as there is no waiting for sometime in the future.

You may REMEMBER ME as one of the first spanking bloggers, from the days when my spankedhubby.blogspot.com site was the first site where a man openly professed that he was spanked, and liked being spanked.

That needs to be qualified. I like the idea of spanking, I like the submission in accepting to be spanked, and the afterglow. The spanking when intense I cannot truly say I like, but it is a part of giving up control.  

Spanking helps keep my libido in full force, and also removes stress in our relationship, and stress that I might simply be causing myself. We are still very mmuch in love, having been married for more than 50 years. I cannot get too specific, as guessing my identity is not something I would like, but I am willing to share with spanking friends.

My first blog was over 25 years ago, when only Bonnie and a couple of years later Hermoine and then Ronnie Soul started blogging.  Blogger removed my blog, no idea why, and I started consensual spanking.blogspot.com , and after many more years it was once again removed by blogger. I have since moved on to Tumblr, and had three of them canceled over the years. My most recent is Spankings4u.tumblr.com. I enjoy reading and writing about spanking, and it has been a life long stimulation.

I still believe myself to be a Liberal, but in Canada that means you have to support the Conservative party if you want any middle of the road and non-woke policies of the extremist Liberals (who I would say have moved into a far left socialist party, but bringing rules that would make Communist China feel very comfortable with. I will refrain from any other politics, on this site, but you are welcome to chat with me using my current email as redoften@mailfence.com about spanking or life, or travel ideas, or staying young and active. I still play sports, and work in the garden (althoug I would rather be traveling.

Where have we visited recently; Prague, Berlin, Budapest, Vienna, Salzburg, and Munich (6 weeks in total) We were just in Stratford Upon Avon in England, but unfortunately did NOT meet up with Ronnie Soul. More astounding, we had eight days of sunshine, and temperatures daily from a high of 17 to 23 each day)  We cruise often, and enjoy it immensely. While on a cruise I am spanked in our cabin, with the music on the television to try to muffle some of the sound, but not really effectively.

And now currently:

Cindy has once again started to enjoy spanking me, and thus is spanking often. It is a on again off again status, but right now it is on full blast. I had not been spanked, due to travel, for quite some time. I had forgotten to bring a spanking implement or two, so Cindy used the belt on a cruise ship once.

Since being home, we have had many things to catch up on, and being stresed, I asked for a spanking. Cindy is always willing to spank when I ask.

We have a short tawse, and she truly loves using it. Cindy was in her favorite position , standing, with my bottom raised by being positioned on top of two pillows.

She does love to use leather, and as you can see, when you spank the near cheek with a tawse, the ends delve into the crack extremely effectively.



My stress and anxiety are gone, and I thanked her for my spanking. It is a given that I always thank her for spanking me.

The following day, I was cranky and out of sorts having driven quite a bit in traffic. Cindy would have none of it, so bare your bottom and bend over.

Solution for bad mood: Timer set for one minute! extremely effective. Bad mood solved, and thank you dear!

The next day: 

t has been three days in a row, that I have been spanked. Simply a small disagreement in the kitchen. Cindy picked up the wooden spoon,

and said: Bare your bottom and bend over!"

This was the strongest wooden spoon spanking she has ever given. The day before she set a timer (at my suggestion for one minute), and she lasted about 45 seconds of intense spanking.

Today, she spanked for maybe thirty seconds, but as I started to stand up she said " stay in position, I am just resting"

Then the spanking started again!

She visited other spots of my bottom and back of the top of the legs, and I was very sore, and raising up on my toes. She stopped again after maybe 30 seconds, and immediately said:

"I am just resting, I am NOT finished"


and again a long spanking where I was gyrating around and owwing. Again she paused, and said " stay put"


one more round, extremely hard had my bottom on fire, before she said you can get up now.

The color of the wall, and the light from the window, do not do justice to how red my bottom was.


So, depending on if anyone actually sees this post, and comments, I will be posting occasionally

Have you been spanked lately?

bottoms up

Red

 

Monday, July 7, 2025

Cindy enjoys spanking me

 

Your husband asked: Do you enjoy spanking me?

He knows that the spanking started with you being reluctant to spank him. He would have to ask for a spanking, and you to please him, agreed. He purchased more implements for you to spank him with, and they were much more effective than just your hand or hair brush.

He noticed also that the spankings became harder over time, and you are more frequently actually initiating a spanking, without his explicit request.

You even had said that his behavior was a reqesut for a spanking!

Thus the question: Do you enjoy spanking me?


This spanking is to prove that she spanks when she feels to show her control


in a brief nutshell:

This is very similar to the path that Cindy and I have taken

Friday, September 20, 2024

stress relief

 Sadly, as I age, I stress more than I ever used to.

Spankings give me some relief, and I asked Cindy for one today.  It helped a bit, but will need another later, and tomorrow.

We are off on vacation on Sunday, so need to destress before going.

Wish me luck

bottoms up

red




Monday, September 16, 2024

Spanking season

As things go in our life, so metimes I am spanked frequently, and then large lapses of time before another spanking. Today marked th ethird in four days, and Cindy simply stated to get a couple of instruments, and bare my bottom. I usually get to choose the implements, but know to choose each one that works significantly. We have moved beyond items that have no real spanking effect


My position was similar to this with legs spread, at the corner of the bed lying on top of three pillows

Thought you would rather see this nice woman's bottom instead of mine.

Cindy used the tawse long and hard, but then walked to the other side so that she could specifically spank the other far cheek. As you probably know, the tawse ends are the worse, and land on only one cheek, so moving sides means the other cheek now receives it's fair share, and significant wrapping onto the side of the leg.


then the bath brush was strongly used on the fleshy parts of both cheeks. Cindy has learned, with my advice, that the wood is safe and effective on the fleshy parts, and the leather can go much higher and lower safely. All are painful. The next photo is me, but froma different spanking


My spanked bottom

Hope I have learned enough in the last few days to last a while.


bottoms up

Red

Monday, August 26, 2024

Spanked

 Cindy is spanking quite harder now, and that is becoming very effective. Today I was spanked twice, and it is only misafternoon.

One was on the bed with me lieing over pillows to raise my bottom, and a strong dose o fthe small tawse and then the cane.

A little while ago, it was a wooden cooking utensil in the kitchen, bare bottom, bending over the kitchen counter.


bottoms up

Red

Saturday, March 9, 2024

how to introduce spanking in your marriage

 A man might suggest this as A WAY TO SOLVE A DISPUTE, and if he truly is in the wrong, may suggest you spank him. He will be thinking that this wold be a great way to live his dream of being spanked, and then making passionate love with you.

It is for you to accept, but make the spanking absolutely REAL, and nothing like what he wanted. Corner time will let him know that sex is not inthe offing!

















He will have a new impression and desire to please the woman that he loves.

bottoms up

Red

Tuesday, March 5, 2024

Spankings help a man realize his place in a marriage

 The man is a partner, not the only person that counts. What the wife desires to do is equally as important, if not more important, if you want a happy marriage.

I am most certainly into spanking, and our life haas evolved whereas I am the spanked person, not the spanker


and regular spankings are always needed, beside on the spot spankings


bottoms up



Red

Cindy is spanking often (recap for the last three days)

Been a long time since I used this blog, so maybe it is time to revive it.   We are traveling frequently, and are healthy and enjoying life....