Do you think about spanking daily?

I enjoy thoughts about spanking, and thus wander on tumblr over a variety of sites. I would not want to be spanked daily for too long, but it has in the past happened three days in a row. Sitting was more difficult than normal. The spankings were deserved. I do not enjoy the spankings, as Cindy has become very effective, but I enjoy the attitude of dominance and submission, and the love needed to spank someone with love!

1. Do you think about spanking daily, every few days, weekly or monthly?

2. If you, like me, also wander on tumblr, what is yourtumblr site so I and others can find you.

3. Do you wander around spanking blogs on blogger? IF so, whihc are oyur favorites?

4. Are you married, and are you the spanker  or the spankee?

5. anything else you might like to add?

bottoms up

Red

The question rarely asked

1. Were you spanked as a youth?

2. If yes, then by who? 

3. Lastly, do you think it started your spanking fetish?

I was spanked as a youth, but I think only twice! Both times I was in tears almost immediately.

I believe it was by my father, but it may have been once by my mother and once by my father.

Did it create my spanking fetish. No!

What probably started my erotic fascination with spanking was something I read as a youth. I was already experienced puberty, and searching for sexual outlets for the mind. Maybe age 10.

At this early age, I read about a woman taking young men into a room for a spanking, and I think it suggested more than spanking. The author then described how this month was his turn to be taken into this room, and the thought of more happening than spanking caused an immediate erection. Thus, spanking and sex were intertwined.

By reading spanking magazines, spanking stories, and now so many sites on the internet, I still having the same erotic reactions.(erections)

I believe that daily sexual thoughts is something that helps keep you young.

Your turn

and this is very true

bottoms up

RED

Did you read spanking magazines in your youth (part one)

 I have always had a spanking fetish, since as a young teenager, and possibly earlier.

I was always able to find spanking stories, long before the internet existed. Certain men's magazines (like Mr) had letters to the editors about spanking. Then along came Penthouse (with a guaranteed one  or two spanking letters, and finally Variations (which always had a feature spanking story, or more. This really ramped up my erotic fantasy about spankings.

As time has progressed, I had a large collection of Janus, Swish, Scarlett Hill magazines. Cindy was not interested in my fetish, so I kept it hidden for many years, specially with children at home. 

We never spanked our children. 

My first desires was to be the spanker, but deep down I was realizing that either spanker or spankee was fine, as the same erotic reaction occured when reading about spanking. If a woman was spanking a  man, I could imagine I was being spanked. If a man was spanking a woman, I was the spanker. However, if a woman was spanking a woman, I was an interested spectator.

The first spanking article I can remember was in a Midnight newspaper, where a woman was the spanker, and once a year the male writer would look forward to be taken into the private room to be spanked AND MORE! The and more did the trick and I was hooked. 

As time progressed with Scarlett Hill magazines, I purchased as many of them as I could.

but specifically I started to purhase every NNL (No Nonsense Ladies) that existed, plus spank happy wives, red cheeked collection. and she's the boss, and others including f/f and M/f, but overwhelmingly F/M.

The embarrassment of being spanked in front of someone else also gave a thrill, and has been a part of my fetish.

I have still enjoyed them over the years, but discarded them as the internet flourished with spanking material.

The disciplinarywivesclub.com sealed the deal to online information. 

Before continuing on a walk down memory lane with discussing how the internet enhanced and progressed my spanking desires,  I will give anoyone interested a chance to answer the question posed in the heading!

Did you read spanking magazines in your youth

bottoms up

Red

frequency of spankings increases rapidly

Cindy has for the most part accepted the idea of spanking me, and to keep spanking frequently, until a behaviuor she dislikes disappears. This is totally new for us.

I have a bad tendency of saying: "you should have done...." and she wants me to think before I speak, and choose a nicer way of saying a suggestion than you SHOULD HAVE.

Normally, spankings are on the spot, but not frequently, and only when she is upset about something I have done, or that stress over time has me asking for a spanking. 

Ccurrently it is "tough love"

Thr bath brush has been used each time, and having been spanked two days in a row significantly (Sunday and Monday), I was much better on Tuesday. Unfortunately, I used the "should have done" expression today, so will be spanked before dinner.

My bottom is still sore from the two days of spanking; so we shall see if I can actually learn to think before speaking, or will another spanking be needed after today.

Today's spanking has occured, and it was significant.

Bare bottom, raised  by two pillows, at the corner of the bed. The corner means that my legs are spread quite wide, one on each side of teh corner as far apart as possible. Cindy used the tawse, and it reached inside the crease between the buttocks at times, but also was used significantly where the bottom reaches the top of the legs, and simply further down the top of the back of the legs also. (visited frequently during this spanking)

No warm-up was given, just very strong spanks from start to finish.

It was extremely effective, with a pause in the middle to review why I was being spanked, but also so Cindy could regain her breath to begin a second round of totally strong spanks.

Not my bottom, but very similar markings except they also went lower.

                                                                A question:
                        Have spankings worked for you to stop a specific behavior?

thought for today

bottoms up

RED

Do you or your partner have photos of your spanked bottom

Having read my friend's blog, [www.ronniesoul.blogspot.com] called Heart and Soul (a link is on the side) of my blog, I was delighted to see a coy photo of her bare bottom and P's hand.

This made me wonder if others take photos after being spanked!

I have had Cindy take a photo or two of my very red bottom, throughout the years. As we age, my bottom changes somewhat, and the red is much stronger than it ever used to be when we first started spanking.  As a joke I can say it is because the iphone camera is far better than any camera I previously owned, but in reality it is also because Cindy spanks so much harder and longer. (which is what I requested so as to be effective)

If you do take photos, where do you store them?

I have mine buried in documents, inside about fifteen or more subfolders. There are about twenty folders to start, so to find them one would have to open the correct folder, then choose from another ten folders the correct one, and having multiple choices along the way, and keep opening folders in the right sequence, until getting there. 

How or where do you keep photos?

Here is one of my bottom after a spanking at a spanking party in I believe in August 2009, in the Catskills. The only spanking party we ever attended. 

I thought it was to be fun spankings, and it started that way with my first spanking the night before (the woman asked if I wanted play or real- I said play and that was what was given), but the next morning this one woman (in my humble opinion) was wanting to punish severely and break any man, and thus a contest of wills! Sad! Some men were hobbling around in great pain when the weekend was ending, whereas others were fine, because they had recognized who they would let spank them, and who they would not permit to spank them. I had severe bruising from this one spanking that lasted a couple of weeks, at what was supposedly a fun spanking party.

                                            a photo from later that day

and a few days later

The couple that ran the party were very nice, and I am sorry I have lost their contact information. If you are one of them actually reading this, or attended this party, send me a note please, so we can reconnect.

bottoms up

Red

Before the party

 Wondering:

Do you use spankings before meeting friends or attending a party? 

We do, and this really helps my stress and anxiety. I have found that I behave so much better, when the 

Talk less, listen more  spanking lecture is given before we meet friends or attend any event.

Normally, I ask while we are getting redy, and Cindy is only too happy to agree. Any nervousness about the gathering adds to the spanking, as it removes the stress he might have of my misbehaving.

bottoms up

Red