Taking spanking to the next level

I have often asked, though not frequently, for Cindy to spank me to help reduce my stress. This might be every month or bimonthly! Howver, this includes the fact that if I go too long without being spanked, then this sadly increases my stress levels. I  am usually spanked a couple of times a month, but recently it has been much more frequent, so absolutely no need to ask. 

Do you have this same dilemna of needing to ask to be spanked? 

Cindy always agrees, and the spanking happens ASAP, if not immediately.

We do not do maintenance spankings.

What has changed, thus my title of taking spanking to a new level.

Well, we are about to go on a month's vacation, and Cindy always stresses before going.

Aside: I have left two posts, scheduled to appear, so if interested you will need to look for them,a s they do not necessarily appear.

Cindy was stressed two nights ago, so to alleviate her stress, she spanked me!!!!

A real long session, over the knee, with both the leather tawse,

and then the Ms. Hurley wooden paddle. 

A very strong, effective spanking. 

She agreed, after I thanked her for my spanking (a ritual showing I accept being spanked), that her stress is less.

However, yesterday, I had an on the spot long spanking with a wooden spoon for not driving carefully and signaling when I turn. This has never happened before. 

Two days, two spanknigs initiated by Cindy.

Today, another on the spot spanking with the wooden spoon, longer than yesterday's, for raising my voice when frustrated. My fault to being frustrated while talking about finances with Cindy, but the solution was readily available.

Thus, three spankings in less than 48 hours, and the day is not finsihed.

Yes, we have entered a new era.

Yes, Cindy is smiling more than normal!

Has your partner increased your spankings on their own?

bottoms up

Red

Do you use regular maintenance spankings

 No idea if anyone ever looks at this blog, as I have been absent from blogging for a long time.

I have suggested it to Cindy, but she does not want spankings to be on a schedule, more on an as needed basis.  If she is unhappy with my behavior, then she will spank me if she is  upset enough and feels it will help solve the problem.

She also will spank me if I ask for a spanking, whether it is for something I have done that she is unaware of, or simply I feel it is necessary to keep me grounded and in good humor. (that is, relieve the stress that builds in life)

I might suggest it again, to see if her interest has increased, and as a way to control my stress regularly.

We have an almost identical bath brush, but the wood side has long lost its glossy shine

bottoms up

Red

Do you at times need to ask to be spanked?

In our situation , spankings occur in a infrequent pattern.

I quite often have to ask to be spanked, as periods of time can go by before Cindy initiates a spanking.

Cindy always agrees and the spanking is immediate or soon on the same day. Once this happens, spankings  can happen frequently over the next week. Sometimes as simple as hand me the spoon, foolwed by bare your bottom,:

and a quick on the spot spanking occurs. An explanation is given as to what I have done wrong during the spanking. 

Cindy has learned to pace herself, so it might be 30 seconds of a spank a second, followed by her explaining why, followed by another session of spanks. Sometimes, there are three lectures surrounded by four spank sessions before this spanking is done. I always thank Cindy for the spanking, and try my best to not repeat whatever I had done. We are both human, so mistakes happen.

I have an addiction ot spanking thoughts, and although I do NOT like the actual spanks, the thoughts of before and after are very erotic for me.

If I go more than two or three weeks without spanking, I definitely ask for one, and Cindy then gives a longer one, with my bare bottoom raised over two or three pillows, with Cindy standing using the tawse, bath brush, or cane, or Ms Hurley.

Do i like being spanked?

Yes

bottoms up

Red

enjoying captioned spanking thoughts

I frequent tumblr, and it has quite a few sites which have a photo captioned about spanking. Reading about spanking has always been erotic for me, so these are a quick and easy way to keep erotic thoughts alive. 

one from long ago I have always loved

or 

one excellent site is  www.beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too.tumblr.com   You will have to join tumblr to be able to see this site, but simply use the same email that you use for blogger

Do you find captioned phots about spanking erotic?

bottoms up

Red

Cindy is spanking often (recap for the last three days)

Been a long time since I used this blog, so maybe it is time to revive it.  

We are traveling frequently, and are healthy and enjoying life. Being in our late 70's (wow is that a frightening thought), we keep traveling as there is no waiting for sometime in the future.

You may REMEMBER ME as one of the first spanking bloggers, from the days when my spankedhubby.blogspot.com site was the first site where a man openly professed that he was spanked, and liked being spanked.

That needs to be qualified. I like the idea of spanking, I like the submission in accepting to be spanked, and the afterglow. The spanking when intense I cannot truly say I like, but it is a part of giving up control.  

Spanking helps keep my libido in full force, and also removes stress in our relationship, and stress that I might simply be causing myself. We are still very mmuch in love, having been married for more than 50 years. I cannot get too specific, as guessing my identity is not something I would like, but I am willing to share with spanking friends.

My first blog was over 25 years ago, when only Bonnie and a couple of years later Hermoine and then Ronnie Soul started blogging.  Blogger removed my blog, no idea why, and I started consensual spanking.blogspot.com , and after many more years it was once again removed by blogger. I have since moved on to Tumblr, and had three of them canceled over the years. My most recent is Spankings4u.tumblr.com. I enjoy reading and writing about spanking, and it has been a life long stimulation.

I still believe myself to be a Liberal, but in Canada that means you have to support the Conservative party if you want any middle of the road and non-woke policies of the extremist Liberals (who I would say have moved into a far left socialist party, but bringing rules that would make Communist China feel very comfortable with. I will refrain from any other politics, on this site, but you are welcome to chat with me using my current email as redoften@mailfence.com about spanking or life, or travel ideas, or staying young and active. I still play sports, and work in the garden (althoug I would rather be traveling.

Where have we visited recently; Prague, Berlin, Budapest, Vienna, Salzburg, and Munich (6 weeks in total) We were just in Stratford Upon Avon in England, but unfortunately did NOT meet up with Ronnie Soul. More astounding, we had eight days of sunshine, and temperatures daily from a high of 17 to 23 each day)  We cruise often, and enjoy it immensely. While on a cruise I am spanked in our cabin, with the music on the television to try to muffle some of the sound, but not really effectively.

And now currently:

Cindy has once again started to enjoy spanking me, and thus is spanking often. It is a on again off again status, but right now it is on full blast. I had not been spanked, due to travel, for quite some time. I had forgotten to bring a spanking implement or two, so Cindy used the belt on a cruise ship once.

Since being home, we have had many things to catch up on, and being stresed, I asked for a spanking. Cindy is always willing to spank when I ask.

We have a short tawse, and she truly loves using it. Cindy was in her favorite position , standing, with my bottom raised by being positioned on top of two pillows.

She does love to use leather, and as you can see, when you spank the near cheek with a tawse, the ends delve into the crack extremely effectively.

My stress and anxiety are gone, and I thanked her for my spanking. It is a given that I always thank her for spanking me.

The following day, I was cranky and out of sorts having driven quite a bit in traffic. Cindy would have none of it, so bare your bottom and bend over.

Solution for bad mood: Timer set for one minute! extremely effective. Bad mood solved, and thank you dear!

The next day: 

t has been three days in a row, that I have been spanked. Simply a small disagreement in the kitchen. Cindy picked up the wooden spoon,

and said: Bare your bottom and bend over!"

This was the strongest wooden spoon spanking she has ever given. The day before she set a timer (at my suggestion for one minute), and she lasted about 45 seconds of intense spanking.

Today, she spanked for maybe thirty seconds, but as I started to stand up she said " stay in position, I am just resting"

Then the spanking started again!

She visited other spots of my bottom and back of the top of the legs, and I was very sore, and raising up on my toes. She stopped again after maybe 30 seconds, and immediately said:

"I am just resting, I am NOT finished"

and again a long spanking where I was gyrating around and owwing. Again she paused, and said " stay put"

one more round, extremely hard had my bottom on fire, before she said you can get up now.

The color of the wall, and the light from the window, do not do justice to how red my bottom was.

So, depending on if anyone actually sees this post, and comments, I will be posting occasionally

Have you been spanked lately?

bottoms up

Red

Cindy enjoys spanking me

 

Your husband asked: Do you enjoy spanking me?

He knows that the spanking started with you being reluctant to spank him. He would have to ask for a spanking, and you to please him, agreed. He purchased more implements for you to spank him with, and they were much more effective than just your hand or hair brush.

He noticed also that the spankings became harder over time, and you are more frequently actually initiating a spanking, without his explicit request.

You even had said that his behavior was a reqesut for a spanking!

Thus the question: Do you enjoy spanking me?

This spanking is to prove that she spanks when she feels to show her control

in a brief nutshell:

This is very similar to the path that Cindy and I have taken

Spanked

 Cindy is spanking quite harder now, and that is becoming very effective. Today I was spanked twice, and it is only misafternoon.

One was on the bed with me lieing over pillows to raise my bottom, and a strong dose o fthe small tawse and then the cane.

A little while ago, it was a wooden cooking utensil in the kitchen, bare bottom, bending over the kitchen counter.

bottoms up

Red

how to introduce spanking in your marriage

 A man might suggest this as A WAY TO SOLVE A DISPUTE, and if he truly is in the wrong, may suggest you spank him. He will be thinking that this wold be a great way to live his dream of being spanked, and then making passionate love with you.

It is for you to accept, but make the spanking absolutely REAL, and nothing like what he wanted. Corner time will let him know that sex is not inthe offing!

He will have a new impression and desire to please the woman that he loves.

bottoms up

Red