What are the three most used spanking positions when you are spanked?

Variety is the spice of life, but after many years of being spanked, I think most people use only a couple of positions for the spankee to be in. 

The reason being, in my mind, is that we evovle into using the easiest method for the spanker to give the most effective spanking.

Normally, when told  I am going to be spanked, I am either told by go upstairs and prepare, or most of the time "come upstairs". The " come upstairs" might be for a spanking I was NOT expecting, but I usually am made aware of a spanking about to happen today. 

method 1: pillows in the bed to raise my bare bottom, and Cindy standing spanking me. 

If Cindy is using the tawse, or the bath brush, it is used with effective force. 

My most recent with a bath brush only.

Method 2. If over the knee is the method for today, it is equally effective.

Method 3 is on the spot, and that usually is a wooden spoon in the kitchen: with the words, 

BARE YOUR BOTTOM AND BEND OVER

however, if she pulls a chair out and sits down, then a long spanking is about to be given

So, would you like to share the usual positions you are spanked in (As I think almost everyone who comments is the spankee)  or what favorite positions do you like to be in or on to spank someone. 

Thought for the day:

easy to remember

smile

 

bottoms up

Red

Has spanking helped increase or maintain an active sex life?

 Cindy is now quite happy when spanking me! 

for whatever reason she feels needs to be changed, or as a precaution before meeting friends and relatives, or for something I just did that upset her.

We are in our late 70's (past what one would LIKE TO call our middle 70's) and have a very exciting sex life after more than 50 years of marriage. 

I still get erections (sometimes) by being told I will be spanked, and the erotic thought fills the moment,

but age and knowing it will be a real spanking, not a play spanking, does temper my reaction sometimes.

Cindy is very receptive to love making the day after spanking me. but rarely the day of. 

A spanking is given for a reason, and is not rewarded with sex afterwards. Anticipation does exist however, for both of us, and the passion is even greater when making love.

Many things can get in the way of a couple having sex as they age, and to me I think spanking helps keep the love and sexual desire AWAKE! 

In addition, having this blog, or the tumblr I have,(https://http://spankings4u.tumblr.com) keeps spanking and sexual thoughts alive.

I read F/m spanking captions almost daily, even when on vacation, and usually have a sexual reaction.  That facet certainly helps keep the sex drive functioning. 

You can never know the sex life of couples you know, but you can get some idea from whether they still care about their appearance, how they behave to each other, and how generally happy they seem to be.

We travel frequently, and having adventures, planning adventures, and simply living life to the fullest we can helps keep us healthy, and mentally stimulated.

It is a two way street. You both need to honestly care about each other, and enjoy each others company. At a certain age penetration may no longer be appropriate, but orally pleasing each other to orgasm is highly recommended.

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Are you willing, as no one knows who you are, to express your thoughts about spanking in relation to the frequency of your love making with your partner? 

Aside: I only know two women who have blogs that I have chatted with online, but have never met them. If they read the above, then they know more about me and Cindy than we know about them. None of what they read here would cause me any shame whatsoever (and they know our real age)

Also, one couple (the husband) reads this blog, so no shame in them knowing also.

If any of them want to answer the question, please feel free to do it. if John does, he probably will be rewarded with a very sound spanking. (He would like that)

If both Hermione and Ronnie write, they would equally be rewarded with a strong spanking. Again a win for both of them.

Keep smiling folks.

Last point on sex: we are down(pun intended) to three times on average every two weeks, and they are fantastic. So much different from when we had children at home, where being quiet, or exhausted ruled the day. Plus no spanking back then.

Final last point: If your sex life has faded somewhat, do you think spanking helps keep it at a higher level than it would be if spanking did not exist.

this is a repost, as I write a post, then set a date to publish in the future. Two people saw it and comeented, but no other blog showed it as published. Thus, I copied, pasted the psot withtcopying the comments and posting them also. Maybe this will apear on other sites, hopefully! Red

and now some smiles

bottoms up

Red

How did spanking become a part of your marriage (or relationship)!

 Well, a little rambling, like Dan calls riffing, about us.

I have had a fantasy kink about spanking, since as long as I can remember. (from sometime in my teenage years). My initial thoughts were of being the spanker, but an equal fascination of being spanked when I would see that situation in a magazine in photos or simply being described in words. Spanking thoughts and putting yourself into the spanknig always created an erection for me, with the normal results for a young male.

I hid spanking from my future wife, as I loved her and did not want her to think of me as a pervert and thus an undesirable life partner. We married in our early mid 20's. We have children, and never spanked our kids. I eventually gave in to my fetish with buying spanking magazines and hiding them away, like I had done in my teenage years, and after more than ten years told her a bit more about my kink. She wanted nothing to do with it, but did not prohibit my buying magazines as long as I hid them.

Fast forward another 20 years and with two of the three children grown up and left the home, I broached trying spanking when the youngest was out. It was not accepted as an idea to pursue.

By the time the youngest was away to university, I had discovered the Disciplinary wives club, and purchased many of their publications, one of which was for the woman whose husband wants her to spank him, and how to mentally approach spanking her man. Another was for the man as to how to discuss that you would be the person being spanked, and accepting being spanked, and promoting your wife that she will have a positive experience.

Cindy, knowing this was a fetish that would never go away, read the material on the website, and what I had purchased! She agreed to parts of what she read, but felt parts were too severe to ever be reasonable.  I liked the nonchalance of spanking your husband when needs it, as personified in this photo from the website 

I always loved the wife smiling, and the idea that a wife smiles while spanking you, and solving a problem.

I started a blog called spankedhubby, after discovering the dwc website, but after many years my blog simply disappeared, without any warning or explanation. 

I have purchased many implements over the years, many from the DWC site when it existed. We threw away ones that were too severe.  We visited Aunt Kay once, and slowly spanking has become more of our life.

Cindy and I are now quite happy with spanking, but it still happens in stages, as previously described on this blog

Cindy is now quite happy when spanking me, for whatever reason she feels needs to be changed or for something I did that upset her.

We are in our late 70's (past what one would call our middle 70's) and have a very exciting sex life after more than 50 years being married. 

I still get erections (sometimes) by being told I will be spanked, and the erotic thought fills the moment,, but age and knowing it will be a real spanking, not a play spanking, does temper my reaction sometimes.

Cindy is very receptive to love making the day after spanking me. but rarely the day of.  A spanking is given for a reason, and is not rewarded with sex afterwards. Anticipation does exist however, for both of us, and the passion is even greater when making love.

Many things can get in the way of a couple having sex as they age, and to me I think spanking helps keep the love and sexual desire AWAKE! 

Your history and your thoughts about spanking in relation to your love making. (you can answer both or either) 

Always leave them smiling

bottoms up

Red