Friday, July 24, 2026

Why are you spanked, or why do you spank?

I am the spankee!

We have evolved from the first days when Cindy after a lot of discussion started to spank me at my request, to please me, and sometimes simply as foreplay.

Now spankings are for real, but she stops when I am showing distress. I will hate it, but someday she may spank me to freely flowing tears (crying), which is probably the goal for a REAL spanking.

Why she spanks

A) Her stress might be about how I will behave when visiting with people. So before we go, this would happen.

She re-states and reinforces some rules as she spanks me.

1. Talk less, listen more.

We all must have some friends that do not even say how was your vacation, but simply talk about their life, their vacation, their anything and everything, with maddening detail. They are inherently good people, and do kind things, but simply talk forever and a day. Thus, I should not be one of them.

2. Before visiting friends or family:

No politics. In reality, you cannot change a person's political outlook unless they are starting to question their own political party. I have started to simply state that when they complain about something, that our Canadian government has a 70 Billion dollar deficit, but will add 60 to 90 billion to that deficit to build a high speed rail from Toronto to Montreal (that nobody needs). Wish they would spend it on healthcare. (Some people could make the same case in California with their high speed rail)

3. Control your drinking. If i keep letting the host refill my glass of wine, I forget #1 and #2

B) My stress: It builds when I read too much political news, or worrying about the state of the world, or...

C) My Shouting: When my stress in a discussion gets immense, and I cannot find the words to express myself, and I cannot get Cindy to stop questioning me! However, I also shout at times, and all shouting is unacceptable

D) simple grumpiness:

If I am grumpy, I AM SPANKED. Occasionally I get a warning, are you grumpy, and I smarten up and behave better immediately

E) misbehavior

I am now spanked whenever Cindy decides my behavior warrants it, whether it is:

NOT doing something that I should have done,

or doing something I should NOT have done,

any action she considers rude (a bad joke is one of my faults)

or ............. the list is whatever she decides

In summary: Cindy enjoys the idea of changing my behavior for the better (I agree with this)

bottoms up

Red

Sunday, July 19, 2026

What type of spankings are you given (or Give): Role play, actual discipline, or some of each

The Disciplinary Wives Club - Tribute

the above site is where you should visit!

You might to look at the captioned photos, but i had problems with my blog, it would not post for three days, and

The Disciplinary Wives Club - Tribute

has a much better post than mine, so click the link and go read his!

Apologies Dan for having a almost similar post.

bottoms up

RED

Reading posts from other bloggers, it appears that some (many) use role play for initiating a spanking.

Thus, this leads to the question:

A) Do you only do role play for spankings

B) Do you do a mix of some spankings being role play, but some spankings are to correct behaviors

C) Do you only do behaviorial modification spankings ( can include stress relief, or warnings about behavior before going out)

We have never used role play.

Spankings started because I asked, and Cindy agreed because she wanted to please me.

They have progressed to Cindy deciding a spanking is needed and spanking me, many of which are on the spot, or as soon as possible. She enjoys solving the problem by spanking me for real.

A smile for today.

bottoms up

Red

PS: when i reply to your comments, I still cannot reply any other way except anonymous

Sunday, July 12, 2026

Do you store spanking photos, videos, captioned photos on your home computer, and why?

I store spanking photos, videos, captioned photos on my home desktop computer. It is my own personal computer, and nobody else uses it. The password is only known by Cindy, so it is a relatively secure place.

I have no great importance in life, so somebody breaking in and stealing my computer would not have any financial gain by finding the spanking info, and selling this feature of my life to any publication.

I find spanking thoughts sexually exciting, and I think by re-inforcing my desires has helped keep our sexual life alive and extremely amazing. On average, I would guess we have passionate love making three times every two weeks. Cindy and I both being in our late 70's makes this simply amazing. [ married for more than 50 years] Sex is almost exclusively oral both ways, so that one can concentrate on the best orgasm possible for their partner.

Reading spanking captioned photos: of a spanking about to be given:

will it be a very bad, crying spanking?

or when we get home

or any of the myriad of possibilities leads to having erections daily.

I save some of them, because blogs and tumblrs come and go, and sometimes the best gets taken down by the provider, or simply because the author is trying to change their daily thinking about spanking, but fortunately some leave the tumblr with posts remaining, or re-start posting.

I rarely look at videos. The reason is probably that the mental aspects of spanking are what fosters reactions. The thought of being the spankee with other people watching,

or being spanked by another member of the family

or an in-law, (like a mother-in-law)

or being spanked in public

or being teased about the spanking that was given,

all add to the aura of spanking.

Are the spanking photos hidden. Sort of: is the best answer but google and internet explorer keep finding new ways to show the most recent I have saved. Saved in documents, in one of many folders, within the first level of that folder there are many folders, within the right one there are many folders, then many more layers being buried downwards, with plenty of red herrings to lead one to give up. (I HOPE)

What do you do?

bottoms up

Red

Sunday, July 5, 2026

Do you enjoy reading captioned text referencing to a person who is about to be spanked

Personally, I enjoy reading captioned photos of a promised spanking, or a spanking about to occur, or humor of how the spankee is reacting from being spanked. However, there are so many variations related to a person being spanked.

For example: you said something about somebody, or swore, or simply broke one of the rules that results in a spanking.