Has your wife learned to give more effective spankings?

In our situation, Cindy is an extremely effective spanker. Our journey in F/M spanking began like most people I believe very tentatively. The wife loves her husband, and cannot imagine why she would want to make him suffer. Thus, spanking is simply unfathomable.

More than 20 years later, Cindy is comfortable, and quite happy to spank me when she thinks it is deserved, or if I ask for stress relief. 

1. Her spankings are longer in that she takes a pause partway through, and then continues. There may be a lecture of why this spanking is being given, and then the spanking begins again. Occasionally, another pause may occur and she will ask me to explain why I am being spanked, and what I am going to do to not need another spanking for this behavior.

2. Her spankings are more focused.She makes certain that my whole bottom is bright red, with that tell tale grey in the middle of each cheek. 

My usual position is bare bottomed on top of pillows, at the corner of the bed so that one leg is on each side of the bed. This truly opens me up for being spanked thoroughly. She frequently uses the short tawse, and spanks first from one side on one cheek, and then from the other side on the other cheek. This causes the tawse end to spank the inner parts of the crease between my buttocks. That area has been bright red many times, as almsot every spank reaches it.

In addition, she uses it on the crease between the bottom of my buttocks and the top of my thighs.

3. When upset, she usually goes upstairs, and then calls out: "Please come upstairs". Those words mean a signficant spanking! On these occasions she informs me to get both the bath brush and the tawse (something wooden and something leather)

4. If bothered by something I did while helping to make a meal or cleaning up in the kitchen, she picks up a wooden spoon and says bare your bottom. I immediately respond and also bend over the counter.

5. It is a given that before going out to visit friends, I am spanked. There has never been a reason to spank me when we get home.

6. Lastly, as normal, I was spanked yesterday, and my bottom is still sore sitting and typing this post while on a padded chair.

PS: We never do hand spankings. We started but it proved to be ineffective, and also Cindy hurt her finger badly once, ending forever hand spankings 

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so, the topic for today

Has your wife learned to give more effective spankings?

Two requests: do you know of an inexpensive to reasonably priced site to purchase a long tawse, 

and a whippy cane? 

Earlier in our spanking life, both were terrible items that wrapped onto my side from Cindy's inexperience, and we threw them away. Cindy being an experienced spanker, they would be  (un)welcome but needed items for Cindy to have.

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