In a healthy marriage, spanking, at least for us, is an outlet to make our marriage far more satisfying and loving. I am reasonably certain this is not the average married person's idea of what happens in a marriage.
I sometimes ask to be spanked, and Cindy almost always spanks me immediately, or later that day. I cannot remember any time that I have to wait until the next day.
Why do I ask to be spanked?
1. If I start getting stressed, I find that the stress builds. I tend to focus on the reason, and do not draw back into thinking id it is really important in my life.
One stressor is:
Reading the news too often, and knowing how one sided the media in Canada in favor of the current Liberal government. They never disagree with the governmenbt policy, nor question the accuracy of totally false statements made by Prime Minister Carney. I could give you so many examples,but this is not the place. Equally stressing, is the negative press about President Trump, never mentioning any accomplishments of his government.
However, no one is here to read about my stress.
When I find myself going down the 'rabbit hole', I ask Cindy to spank me, and help me back into the happiness that we have in life. We have our health, we travel frequently, our family is healthy and enjoying life, and all are prosperous. We have enough money to live on, and thus I always tip over generously, simply making the recipient a little happier for the moment.
Example $5 but now usually $10 for the person who cleans the room in whatever hotel chain we are staying at, and I do this each day of the stay. If the front desk asks if we need to have the room cleaned daily, I say yes, with the proviso that it creates employment, and gives me a chance to tip the cleaner.
Eliminating stress
The happiness is evident also the next day.
2. If I am doing okay, but have not been spanked for a few weeks, a sort of edginess, and/or grumpiness arises in me, that is best solved by a spanking. I do know that it will be an effective spanking!
Cindy is usually aware of my becoming grumpy, and asks do you need to be spanked. That question, sometimes ends the grumpiness, but sometimes I say : Yes, it would help solve things, and she is very happy to help!.
3, Self awareness: When I know I have done something that will result in a spanking, I tell Cindy about it instead of feeling guilty, and wondering if she will find out.
These spankings might be much more intense, although almost all of my spankings are intense.
The crease between the bottom of the cheeks and the top of legs is getting a significant spanking
So, for your consideration:
Have you ever asked your wife to spank you?
If you answered yes, please explain the reason(s) where you might ask to be spanked.
bottoms up
Red
Prior to my wife I was seeing an older woman who lived below me when I was living in an apartment. I recall her visiting and times has forgotten why, but she said there are times she felt a need to give me a spanking. I looked at her and said nothing,your a naughty little boy at times and other women have mentioned the samething. I still said nothing. We talked about other subjects but prior to her leaving I left the room and came back just in my underpants, and with a smile said you want to see me naked and pulled down and took off my underpants. I thought she would be shocked, she quickly took my arm and over her lap I went and before I knew it I was kicking, squirming, pleading for her to stop. She stood me up, I'm not done, and pulled her hairbrush from her purse and over her lap I went. When she did stop the spanking I danced around the room, rubbing, she smiled, felt really good, and I went to put on my underpants, No you don't, face that wall, did as told. With my wife, I don't even think about asking for a spanking. My wife/Mommy spankings are for being a naughty little boy and not for anything else. My Mommy insures I feel like a naughty little boy, especially when it is not even noon and told to put on my jammies. Nothing makes you feel like a naughty little boy being in your jammies, facing the wall, with the bottoms down and worse if someone drops in and sees you. My wife/mommy will explain why in my jammies and if facing the wall with my very red spanked bottom on display I will not be allowed to pull up the bottoms. Jack
ReplyDeletethanks for sharing! Red
DeleteOne of our earliest rules is that I'm never allowed to ask for a spanking. They are only administered when she has determined it's appropriate. Were I to ask to be spanked, I would probably be sent to the corner for 20 minutes and. then have to write sentences, like "I will not ask for a spanking."
ReplyDeleteI've NEVER asked... though I often want to!