Variety is the spice of life, but after many years of being spanked, I think most people use only a couple of positions for the spankee to be in.
The reason being, in my mind, is that we evovle into using the easiest method for the spanker to give the most effective spanking.
Normally, when told I am going to be spanked, I am either told by go upstairs and prepare, or most of the time "come upstairs". The " come upstairs" might be for a spanking I was NOT expecting, but I usually am made aware of a spanking about to happen today.
method 1: pillows in the bed to raise my bare bottom, and Cindy standing spanking me.
My most recent with a bath brush only.
Method 2. If over the knee is the method for today, it is equally effective.
Method 3 is on the spot, and that usually is a wooden spoon in the kitchen: with the words,
BARE YOUR BOTTOM AND BEND OVER
however, if she pulls a chair out and sits down, then a long spanking is about to be given
So, would you like to share the usual positions you are spanked in (As I think almost everyone who comments is the spankee) or what favorite positions do you like to be in or on to spank someone.
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Red
My wife/mommy always spanks me over the knee. She states that position brings out the naughty little boy. I can squirm, kick, try to protect my bottom, she has control. I call my wife mommy because she states if I act like a naughty little boy she will be the mommy and spank her naughty little boy over her lap. Having been seen being spanked, the comment made is he sure acts like a naughty little boy. I always face the wall after a spanking, she wants to admire her work, and add to insuring that I feel like that naughty little boy. My wife reminds me women raised the child and continue to raise the child when married. Jack
ReplyDeleteJack: thanks for replying. Red
ReplyDeleteMy wife likes to take me over her lap to start, if serious she will then have me bend over the back of the chair and finish with the cane or strap.
ReplyDeleteBill: changing postions during is exremely effective, as it means a stronger spanking is about to happen, and you acquiesce accepting it. worth it's own discussion in some future week. Cane, strap, and ??
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Ours used to vary quite a bit, but now it's almost always OTK. She often starts with an ebony hairbrush, but that's as close as she gets to a warm-up. Her preferred tool is a bath brush. Back when we had more variability, the position tended to track the instrument. If she was using a strap, I tended to be draped over pillows on a bed or ottoman. If it was a paddle, it tended to be me bent over the side of the bed.
ReplyDeleteRed: ours used to be otk, now it is almost always my bare bottom raised over pillows on the corner of the bed, with either the tawse or the bath brush. We do not have a paddle., but in the kitchen it is bending over the counter for a wooden kitchen mplement. Ebony hairbrush is expensive. Is it worth the cost.?
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That's a hard one. It's definitely not as effective as a bath brush, but it's such an iconic instrument. We generally leave it out on the bathroom countertop, and every time I see it, it gets my attention. I can't say that for many other things we have in the house, some of them way more expensive than that brush. So, to me, it's worth it aesthetically. In terms of pure spanking functionality, there are cheaper options.
DeleteDan: Being something that can be left on a counter top makes the price worthwhile. Also, that the age we are currently, money has less value, so worth spending on what you want. The future is not guaranteed, so live life to the limit NOW!
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Bare bottom OTK is our preferred method, which she uses for 95% of my spankings. If her arm hurts or gets tired, or is she wants to extend it, and get a better swing, we switch to the bed, with me propped up with pillows. She uses 2 wooden paddles - one for about 80 or 90% of the spankings. The other is about a half inch think bamboo with holes, that is able to cut through the numbness at the end of the spanking.
ReplyDeleteNorton: sounds very effective. Having one that is even more effective sounds like an excellent idea at the end of a spanking for it to be effective and felt when the bottom gets numb. is the second one thicker or thinner? Red
ReplyDeleteBoth paddles are fairly thin - probably about a half inch. The bamboo paddle she uses at the end is longer, and has more sting. I am pretty skinny, and a heavy hairbrush or bath brush would be too much.
ReplyDeleteWe found the heavy wooden paddle (the holy terror) with holes, simply too thick to use. I will be on the lookout for a thin type paddle which is thus more sstingy, (but effective) than something that thuds.
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My spankings are most often with me bent over the back of a sofa in the living room, pants and panties at my ankles. Her second choice is me on the bed, with, like you, the pillow to life my bottom. Her preferred implement is a paddle, but she also uses her hairbrush. Corner time with a bare bottom always follows a spanking and if I get an erection, it's chastity the next day... but that doesn't happen very often any more.
ReplyDeleterobert: No erections anymore after being spanked, and only occasionally before. age,and really effective spankings have solved that issue.
DeleteRed
I'm a switch. I only spank OTK, with one exception on a request from her.
ReplyDeleteOn the other side of the lap - all of them OTK,
Only 2 exceptions:
- A woman who wanted to use a cane on me, requiring me to bend over some tall table - for TWO (that's it!) - mild/medium strokes with a cane.
- A GF who was royally (rightfully) pissed at me and had an old paddle handy. She constructed a HUGE pile of pillows on the bed for me to go over. Maybe 12 swats, but four of them were FOR REAL!
Never did that again!
AJ: i remember a person posting with AJ so very long ago , i believe on my spankedhubby blog.
DeleteOtk is perferred, but Cindy is now spanking effectively, and most are on the bed over pillows.
It is good you have experienced for real swats, but with wood, that can be dangerous, specially with less padding as we age. We do not have a whippy cane, so it is not too bad, whippy is agonizing!
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