stress relief

 Sadly, as I age, I stress more than I ever used to.

Spankings give me some relief, and I asked Cindy for one today.  It helped a bit, but will need another later, and tomorrow.

We are off on vacation on Sunday, so need to destress before going.

Wish me luck

bottoms up

red

Spanking season

As things go in our life, so metimes I am spanked frequently, and then large lapses of time before another spanking. Today marked th ethird in four days, and Cindy simply stated to get a couple of instruments, and bare my bottom. I usually get to choose the implements, but know to choose each one that works significantly. We have moved beyond items that have no real spanking effect

My position was similar to this with legs spread, at the corner of the bed lying on top of three pillows

Thought you would rather see this nice woman's bottom instead of mine.

Cindy used the tawse long and hard, but then walked to the other side so that she could specifically spank the other far cheek. As you probably know, the tawse ends are the worse, and land on only one cheek, so moving sides means the other cheek now receives it's fair share, and significant wrapping onto the side of the leg.

then the bath brush was strongly used on the fleshy parts of both cheeks. Cindy has learned, with my advice, that the wood is safe and effective on the fleshy parts, and the leather can go much higher and lower safely. All are painful. The next photo is me, but froma different spanking

My spanked bottom

Hope I have learned enough in the last few days to last a while.

bottoms up

Red

Spanked

 Cindy is spanking quite harder now, and that is becoming very effective. Today I was spanked twice, and it is only misafternoon.

One was on the bed with me lieing over pillows to raise my bottom, and a strong dose o fthe small tawse and then the cane.

A little while ago, it was a wooden cooking utensil in the kitchen, bare bottom, bending over the kitchen counter.

bottoms up

Red

how to introduce spanking in your marriage

 A man might suggest this as A WAY TO SOLVE A DISPUTE, and if he truly is in the wrong, may suggest you spank him. He will be thinking that this wold be a great way to live his dream of being spanked, and then making passionate love with you.

It is for you to accept, but make the spanking absolutely REAL, and nothing like what he wanted. Corner time will let him know that sex is not inthe offing!

He will have a new impression and desire to please the woman that he loves.

bottoms up

Red

Spankings help a man realize his place in a marriage

 The man is a partner, not the only person that counts. What the wife desires to do is equally as important, if not more important, if you want a happy marriage.

I am most certainly into spanking, and our life haas evolved whereas I am the spanked person, not the spanker

and regular spankings are always needed, beside on the spot spankings

bottoms up

Red

some times you just need to be spanked

 For me, this is frequently!

currently, my spankings are with a short tawse, or/and a bath brush

We need to buy a long tawse

bottoms up

Red