We have for many years now used a preventative spanking to remind me of a few things before going.
1. Do not drink too much, as when you do you get argumentative and unpleasant to be with.
2. Remeber to talk less and llisten more, even if the person never asks about you and only talks about themselves or their interests.
3. Be happy. We are there to have a good time
4. Avoid any political discussion, as you are either talknig tot he converted, or you are not ever going to convince someone to change an opinion.
5. Have fun!
This was done at my request, and if Cindy forgets, I ask her for a spanking before leaving, and long enough beforehand so she is not rushed getting ready.
As it should be!
I find that if I start to get frustrated, I can still feel my sore bottom and let the mood slide.
bottoms up
Red
The first time I was spanked prior to going out was when my wife/mommy had enough of past outings. I was shocked when I was told I was getting a spanking, I had just stepped out of the shower. Told to dry off and get to the bedroom. I found her sitting on the edge of the bed, the bathbrush in hand. I pleaded with her, beg her and she sternly said over my lap NOW. Naked and scared I did as told and when the spanking was over I danced around rubbing. Get dress young man, Yes Mommy I said, and if Mommy is not satifised with your behavior tonight, Mommy is going to give you a very sound spanking when we get home, understand, Yes Mommy, The evening went really good, a coupld of the women asked my wife why I wasn't sitting, she told them, they smiled, once came over and said did Mommy spank you, I responded Yes. It is now the routine, spankings before going out, always after my shower, and I work hard to behave. Jack
ReplyDeleteGlad to know they work for both of you.red
DeleteWe've done preventative spankings a few times, but not often. The few times it has happened, it's always been for the first item on your list -- avoiding drinking too much. It can be kind of hard, because there is a couple whose parties we've gone to several times who are big drinkers. They are more my wife's friends than mine, so I've definitely resented it when we've gone to one of their parties and Anne has tried to restrict me drinking at the same pace as our hosts, because I would rather have just stayed home.
ReplyDeleteI've been spanked for a variant of your #2. On a couple of occasions, Anne thought I was dominating the conversations. She spanked me for it, but it was after the incidents, not as a preventative.
drinking too much is one of my faults, so preventive is always useful. Spankings after a party are always much more severe, if I have earned one. red
DeleteMy wife has used them for a long time,particularly around the winter holidays--- mostly alcohol and testosterone fueled parties PLUS family reunions. They really are mostly for short term effect and almost 100 percent effective. Maybe twice in 20 years has she felt the need to spank me again back home. Apparently they don't work for everyone but they sure do for us.
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We have used them several times, and they worked very well, especially when I was drinking too much. Those days are gone, and now, the best use of a preventative spanking would be to calm me down before I was going into a stressful situation. Occasionally, I have asked her for one, but my preference would be for her to simply tell me she was going to give me one. Spanking really does work, like a drug with no side effects, except for a sore bottom.
Deletespanked before a party has raley ever cuased a spanking when I get home. red
DeleteThe side effects are a great reminder of knowing to behave, and that your wife loves you. Mine are less evere, as they seem to work everytime now. Red
DeleteI think they are a good addition to a disciplinary routine.
ReplyDeleteThey work for us, and it appears they work for the small sample of people who saw this post. red
DeleteNo spankings the day before. only when the party is over,we talk about it and regularly a spanking happens followed bygood intentions for next time. John
ReplyDeleteGuess you should try spankings before the party, and not need them afterwards. Red
DeleteGetting a spanking prior to going out, trying not to show that you have been spanked, sitting when it hurts, walking normally, and accepting it when your wife explains that he prefers not to sit, I have spanked him prior so he will behave. Jack
ReplyDeleteThat would be embarrassing, but wonderful at the same time if Cindy told people we could trust that I was spanked before attending the party. Red
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