Has spanking helped increase or maintain an active sex life?

Cindy is now quite happy when spanking me, 

for whatever reason she feels needs to be changed, or as a precaution before meeting friends and relatives, or for something I just did that upset her.

We are in our late 70's (past what one would LIKE TO call our middle 70's) and have a very exciting sex life after more than 50 years being married. 

I still get erections (sometimes) by being told I will be spanked, and the erotic thought fills the moment,

but age and knowing it will be a real spanking, not a play spanking, does temper my reaction sometimes.

Cindy is very receptive to love making the day after spanking me. but rarely the day of. 

A spanking is given for a reason, and is not rewarded with sex afterwards. Anticipation does exist however, for both of us, and the passion is even greater when making love.

Many things can get in the way of a couple having sex as they age, and to me I think spanking helps keep the love and sexual desire AWAKE! 

In addition, having this blog, or the tumblr I have,(https://http://spankings4u.tumblr.com) keeps spanking and sexual thoughts alive.

I read F/m spanking captions almost daily, even when on vacation, and usually have a sexual reaction.  That facet certainly helps keep the sex drive functioning. 

You can never know the sex life of couples you know, but you can get some idea from whether they still care about their appearance, how they behave to each other, and how generally happy they seem to be.

We travel frequently, and having adventures, planning adventures, and simply living life to the fullest we can helps keep us healthy, and mentally stimulated.

It is a two way street. You both need to honestly care about each other, and enjoy each others company. At a certain age penetration may no longer be appropriate, but orally pleasing each other to orgasm is highly recommended.

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Are you willing, as no one knows who you are, to express your thoughts about spanking in relation to the frequency of your love making with your partner? 

Aside: I only know two women who have blogs that I have chatted with online, but have never met them. If they read the above, then they know more about me and Cindy than we know about them. None of what they read here would cause me any shame whatsoever (and they know our real age)

Also, one couple (the husband) reads this blog, so no shame in them knowing also.

If any of them want to answer the question, please feel free to do it. if John does, he probably will be rewarded with a very sound spanking. (He would like that)

If both Hermione and Ronnie write, they would equally be rewarded with a strong spanking. Again a win for both of them.

Keep smiling folks.

Last point on sex: we are down(pun intended) to three times on average every two weeks, and they are fantastic. So much different from when we had children at home, where being quiet, or exhausted ruled the day. Plus no spanking back then.

Final last point: If your sex life has faded somewhat, do you think spanking helps keep it at a higher level than it would be if spanking did not exist.

and now some smiles

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