A man might suggest this as A WAY TO SOLVE A DISPUTE, and if he truly is in the wrong, may suggest you spank him. He will be thinking that this wold be a great way to live his dream of being spanked, and then making passionate love with you.
It is for you to accept, but make the spanking absolutely REAL, and nothing like what he wanted. Corner time will let him know that sex is not inthe offing!
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